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Anonymous asked:

the ace community is fucking disgusting and lgbt people are people who aren't cisgender and/or experience same sex sexual attraction so pls stop (-an actual lgbt+ person fed up with you guys)

I want you to know that I love you, and I feel sorry for you. I don’t know what kind of past experiences you’ve had or what kind of life you’re living right now that is causing you to feel this way, but I hope that someday you are able to heal from them. 

I believe that ace people are valid members of the LGBT+ community. That shouldn’t make you feel threatened or unsafe, and I’m sorry if it does. Ace people identify as LGBT+ because our experience is radically different from that of heterosexual people - just as the experience of gay people is different. I love being part of the LGBT+ community because I feel safe here - I feel like I’m with people who understand what it’s like to be different, and to subvert the expectations of a heteronormative society. 

Please remember that if an ace person treats you poorly, that shouldn’t reflect on your perception of the entire ace community. Some ace people are total dickwads - just like some gay people, and some straight people. Unfortunately, no one is exempt from being an asshole. But I can tell you that most ace people are pretty neat, and I hope you try to get to know some of us better offline before you make sweeping judgments about us online. Thank you, and I really hope you have a great day.

Stay rad,

Andromeda

Anonymous asked:

Hey I was wondering if you have any dating advice for a fellow ace (especially when it come to at which point to come out)

Personally, I’m open about it if people ask, and it usually comes out (haha) during the conversation in which I and a potential romantic partner are discussing each other’s sexualities. I don’t think you need to be afraid that someone will like you less if you’re ace - because honestly, if someone only loves you because they want to get in bed with you, what kind of love is that? A true romantic partner will love you for who you are, including the part of you that is an anaconda that don’t want none. ;) 

Stay rad,

Andromeda